I had to share this, because this dude handled this situation so gracefully that it kind of blew my mind. I joined a lobby at the end of a game, and the two teams were not happy with each other because both sides were tubing. RMP3 asked the other team after the game if anyone actually used anything other than noob-tubes, saying that the only two people on the opposing team using guns to kill people were the two girls [there were two gamertags on the team that were feminine]. He was not asking in a rude way at all, just calmly asking a question. The situation developed from there.
His response to RMP2 calling him a faggot is the most perfect thing ever- if you listen to the clip, you can hear how he is just absolutely not rattled or angered by it at all.
RMP = Random Male Player
RMP1: I was using my gun that WHOLE time. That WHOLE time. And somebody fucking noob-tubes me over and over again. You think I’m gonna take that shit?
RMP2: No sir!
RMP3: Actually, I thought you were a girl. I was talking about you and Sungirl, actually were using guns.
RMP2: I thought you were a faggot. I still think that.
RMP3: That’s fine.
RMP2: [mocking] That’s fine.